Domestic violence is often talked about in terms of physical, emotional and financial abuse. However, domestic violence can also involve rape and sexual assault.
Sexual violence between those who are, or have been, intimate partners may include rape and sexual assault. It may also include non-contact abuse, such as being forced to look at pornographic material or being forced to engage in sexual acts with someone else (e.g. prostitution, swinging, dogging, working as an escort). It may also include activities such as sending inappropriate messages and grooming, either online or face-to-face. Research suggests that rape or sexual assault is rarely a ‘one-off’ incident.
‘A woman who is raped by a stranger lives with a memory of a horrible attack; a woman who is raped by her husband lives with her rapist’ David Finkelhor and Kersti Yllo.
‘Rape by intimate partners is more common than stranger rape’ Bachman & Saltzman, 1995; Finkelhor & Yllo, 1985; Randall & Haskell, 1995.